Hi John,
That's a fine summary of the situation. Apart from the additional info regarding the DJ5 it pretty much sums up my knowledge to date.
I can confirm that my local diesel jockey has never heard of fitting 3 nozzles of one spec and one of another on the same engine at the same time.
When I've replaced my nozzles in the past it has been with a full set of DNOSD316s.
If someone here speaks fluent enough french it might be worth phoning Citroen France direct. Otherwise, writing to Citroen to ask the question might yield some results. Speaking to Citroen UK is like talking to the wall.
Any Bosch agent is again unlikely to be of any direct use but his affiliation with the wider organisation might give him access to technical help that would otherwise be out of reach for the commoner.
I wish I had some answers on this one but you've got as far as I have.
noz