Regular problem with my old Renaults.
I've no idea what type of gasket is used on the XM, but if it's a paper one, then I normally just buy a sheet of gasket paper, make an imprint of the mating face on it then cut around the shape for a hand-made gasket. Use a very thin smear of sealant on both sides of the paper.
Having said that, I've no idea if modern-type motor spares places still sell gasket paper (it's been a while since I've needed any!).
Maybe if the water pump is a pain to remove and refit just to inspect, then you might want to fit a new one anyway while it's off? Better than the frustration of having the original fail in use a few days later perhaps?
I suspect this thread should get moved to one of the technical areas (despite my lo-tech response here
)?